If someone you care about has lost a loved one, you can help them through the grieving process. However, it is important to remember that your support must be ongoing and lasting because the pain often intensifies a few months after the loss. It is necessary to be present at this time. Keep in mind that each of us tries to do our best, there is no right or wrong way. The important thing is to be there. Be aware that talking, again and again, about what they are going through is essential to the grieving person, and will help them through the healing process.